The Impact of Internet Pornography on Married Women: A Psychodyna ...

While effects of Internet pornography have not been sufficiently studied, Zillman and Bryant’s (1988) findings suggest that compulsive use of Internet pornography may negatively impact sexual satisfaction for the user. Furthermore, Schneider (2000, 2001) demonstrated that there are negative consequences for the spouse and families of those men who participate in cybersex. Excessive use of the Internet for sexual activity can result in adverse consequences for the individual as well as his family (Schneider, 2000, p. 256). These consequences include depression and other emotional problems, social isolation, career loss or decreased job performance, and other financial difficulties. There also may be a “worsening of their sexual relationship with spouse or partner, harm done to their marriage or primary relationship” (p. 250). These consequences affect not only the individual, but also his family.

The subject of Internet sex, cybersex, and Internet pornography needs to be further studied. As the Internet continues to grow at an exponential rate, so will the number of cybersex participants. Marketers of pornography will continue to develop innovative and creative means to attract consumers to the specific Web sites and chat rooms. As several studies have indicated, there are consequences for the participants and families of those who excessively use the computer for sexual activities. Thus, it is essential that therapists develop an understanding of the Internet and sexual activity on the Net. It is also important for therapists to understand the experiences and effects that this activity has on the families of those participants.

Observations from clinical practice indicate that many women are aware on some level of their husbands’ preoccupation with Internet pornography. They struggle with ways to manage their relationships with their husbands and the preoccupation with the Internet. Women employ various psychological defenses and respond with a myriad of behaviors in their efforts to cope with their spouses’ chosen pastime.