abandonment

anxiety, 194

in crucifixion, 218, 227, 261–262, 268

to divine Being, 227

early childhood, 183–184, 194

fear of, 229–230

and identity regrowth, 107

and Immaculate Conception, 276

and interpersonal bridge, 224

and regression, 192

and sin, 255, 264

acceptance

awakening to, 9, 11, 47, 70–71, 124–125, 140–152, 211, 263, 281, 283

and Christ, 219, 228, 231–234, 264, 268, 270

in community life, 108, 124, 134, 170, 178, 269

of death, 216, 262

and identity regrowth, 195–202

of life dream, 63

in relation to the Trinity, 281

and shame, 178, 185, 189, 218

accompaniment

and identity regrowth, 184–185

types of, 106, 183

addiction

caused by inner pain, 111, 256

and codependence, 60

related to neurotic shame, 207n71

and transformation, 13, 25

affect

in Jungian psychology, 216

in L’Arche, 103, 107, 127, 170, 178–179

and limits of affect theory, 225–226

and script theory, 169

of shame, 158–160, 162–169, 181

and symbol of the heart, 246

Tomkins on, 9, 31–32, 34n23, 35n25, 64, 161–162, 204n20

alienation, 50, 56, 60, 76, 78, 163, 168, 254, 268

anguish. See also pain, suffering

awakening to, 9, 11, 110, 124, 132–143, 147, 177, 190–195, 197, 200, 216, 281

and Christ, 176–177, 223–231, 164, 267, 269–270

and ego, 56

in human nature, 110, 251, 258

in L’Arche, 96, 100, 111, 114, 147–148, 152, 171–173, 175, 206n44, 262

psychology of, 162, 164, 245–246

anxiety, 31, 39–41, 54–55, 57, 70, 78, 111, 133, 145, 164, 177, 194, 205n33, 223

Aquinas, Thomas, 242, 247

Aristotle, 93, 247

Arnett, Adam, 128–130, 135, 143, 145–146, 149, 153, 189, 192, 196–197, 199–200, 211, 228–229, 232