access ritual, 76

Acker, Joan, 165

adjacency pair, 59, 76, 79

apology, 116

“aye-aye,”, 61

backchannel, 62, 67–68, 124

Bakhtin, Mikhail, 6

Barton, Ellen, 104

Basow, Susan, 132

Bateson, Gregory, 26, 171

Becker, Alton, 6

boasting, 154

Bonvillain, Nancy, 78

Bourdieu, PierreSee also habitus; rites of institutions, 7–9, 107

Brown and Gilman, 28, 45, 54–56

Brown and Levinson, 74, 116

Brown, Penelope, 48

Butler, Judith, 10–11, 17–18

call sign, 60, 129, 199

Cameron, Deborah, 17, 161, 164

Chafe, WallaceSee also schemas, 105

Coates, Jennifer, 115, 144

coda in narrative, 101

combat exclusions, 165–167

combat restrictions and submarines, 14

complicating action in narrative, 32

Connell, R. W., 11

constructed dialogue, 89, 92, 119–120

contextualization cues, 34

conversational style, 21

Crawford, Mary, 169

Davies, Bronwyn, 132

Deuchar, Margaret, 116

difference approach,, 24–26

directive, 65, 72

directness, 73

discourses, 163

discourse marker, 66, 113

discourse system, 160

dominance model,, 24–25

draft, 5

Drew and Heritage, 148

Eckert, Penelope, 166

Edelsky, Carole, 83, 89

evaluation in narrative, 100

face, 28, 53, 66, 68, 73, 116, 131

negative face, 116

Fairclough, Norman, 6, 57

femininity, 18

flight commander, 39

floor, 83

Foucault, MichelSee also power, 27–29, 162

frame, 112, 171

joking, 154

contest or vying, 170, 186

“There I Was” story, 198

Fukuyama, Francis, 1